In everyday life
Five stage crew each take a cue from one actor’s exact line. If the actor rewords it, the cues are missed. With one stage manager calling the cues, the actor can change the words and only the manager must know.
One case
A food delivery app marks an order with the text “out_for_delivery” in its status fieldOne named value inside a record, such as the total of an order.. Five parts of the system check for that exact text: the driver screen, the customer screen, the support dashboard, billing and the email sender. A developer renames it to “en_route” and updates the two screens. The other three still look for the old text, so they show every active order as status unknown.
Every case
Two parts are coupled when one relies on the details of the other: its field names, its order of steps, its timing. Each such tie is a place where a change can break something far away. Many ties make every change slow and risky, because you must find every place that relies on the detail. Parts must work together, so some coupling is normal. The goal is to keep it to a few named interfaces instead of details spread everywhere.
The word
Engineers call this
Let parts rely on each other only through small, named interfaces. When one change forces edits in many places, pull the shared detail into one place.